A HOLY PURSUIT

dIY: Design Your Dream Garden

HomemakingDianne JagoComment

Before

We started small with the garden box on the right, added the one on the left, and recently decided to expand beyond this.

A few months ago, I shared how my garden kept me busy enough and how I had no plans to expand it. Things changed, however, when my kids received a generous homeschool scholarship this school-year. This scholarship has provided for their curriculum and lots of extra curriculars that we otherwise couldn’t afford. It’s been such a blessing to receive—another reason why I love the great state of Florida— and definitely deserves a post in and of itself. But we found out that some of the spending terms will change next year and all extracurriculars will not be funded. We decided that now is the time to expand our garden if they will pay for it this year. Now each child has a new garden bed, soil, and seeds to go along with it! What a gift. Of course this blesses our family with fresh food but the educational skills that come from gardening are incalculable! It’s brought me so much joy to learn these skills alongside my kids and watch their excitement as we harvest food that we eat the same day.

The struggle I ran into was the design process. If you’ve been following along with my gardening journey, you might recall I was nervous to start a new hobby that may be a flop so Ethan encouraged me to start small. Our first bed was the Vegogarden Kid’s bed and it was only 2’x3.5’. While I was surprised to see how much food I could grow in the small space, the issue I had with starting such a small bed is that I lacked the vision for what our garden could look like someday. I didn’t think beyond what I had before me because I wasn’t sure if this was a journey I would commit to. I really struggled with where to place the 2’x3.5’ and after lugging it around every portion of our yard, eventually decided upon a spot based on sunlight, wind, and visually where I could spot it from my window. It honestly looked goofy smack dab in the middle of such a large, empty space. When I added our 2’x8’ bed, it made sense to continue a line against the fence. But knowing that I would add another 3 beds threw me for a loop which led to many sketches trying to figure out the best placement for everything. If I had some concept in mind from the beginning, I probably couldn’t save myself time and having to work with weird configurations. While I am far from being a gardening expert, I've written this post for the new gardener who isn’t sure where to start when it comes to garden layouts.

1. purchase and place your first garden bed with your dream design in mind.

Before even purchasing a garden bed, I would recommend looking at garden inspiration on Pinterest, getting a general idea of what you might work towards someday, and then making a decision on your first garden bed with the greater picture in mind. Our kids garden bed was an affordable and great place to start, but due to its size it could never be a main focal point of a garden with expansion plans. Worst case scenario, you never expand it but best case you do and already have a plan in place. Reading reviews is helpful to know how your raised bed will hold up in the long term, as well as how it withstands severe weather.

2. Divide your backyard into zones

Backyards that have absolutely nothing in them are super intimidating to me. These kinds of yards are blank canvases with endless possibilities. For some, this may be exciting but for others like me, this is overwhelming. Creating zones helps immensely.

Consider all the ways you plan to utilize the space you have in your backyard. We have a shipping container that we use as a guest space in our backyard so that is one zone, another zone is the garden, and the other zone I created was for a fire-pit and chairs. When each zone has a purpose and when laid out properly, it can tie in the entirety of your backyard to make a magical space.

Once you’ve determined the “zone” for your garden, use graph paper or an online program like Canva to draw up and move around your beds to see how the spacing and positions look. Take into consideration where the sun rises and sets, where your water spicket is located, and if there will be shade from a fence, building, or home. Move things around until it makes sense both visually and practically.

The fun part is dreaming up and filling in the rest. In my “grand plans” that may never happen, I’ve also made space for a swimming pool, a row of blueberry bushes alongside our house, and a fruit tree. While these things may not happen, I can at least be mindful of the space I’m using in case we ever have the opportunity to add these items in.

How I Configured Our Plans

I decided to base everything off of our long 2’x8’ bed. I knew I needed to uproot the small kids bed next to it but had no desire to do that with the longer bed as I had plenty of plants growing in it. This meant that my entire design would be based off the location of our 2’x8’ bed.

My friend Bethany has these beautiful vinyl 4’x4’ garden beds. Since the scholarship would cover them, I decided to go big and add those into our plans. I wanted to break up the metal raised bed look with something that would match our house and add a pop of white by our dull, wooden fence. Mixing these in meant playing around a lot with placement. The small kids sized beds were hard to work with and, thankfully, Vegogarden offers extension pieces to lengthen beds. My 2’x3.5’ bed became a 2’x5.5’! We ordered a second kids bed with extensions to match alongside it. (Kids beds are 50% off if you post photos on social so this was the best deal.) Those new dimensions helped me moved things around “on paper” so that when it came to set up time, there was less physical re-configurating saving us time and muscle.

Ethan brought home some large pavers and we played around with adding some stepping stones between the beds. I loved how it came together and figured maybe someday we could add in a slab of pavement and a fire pit. Things started to take shape! And then the big surprise…guess what Ethan decided to gift me for our 15th wedding anniversary? He took the plans I had dreamed up and made them a reality! He contracted out the walkway from our door all the way down to firepit area. He also decided to to tear up the sod and add in gravel to tie it all together!

3. Create a budget, stick with it, and add to your garden over time.

There are certain items you simply need in a garden in order to have success: good soil, quality seeds, trellises, and so forth. However, you don’t necessarily need the gravel surrounding the beds and that is something that can be added down the road. Prioritize what matters most. I love using spreadsheets to calculate how much everything will cost based on the bed size. Sometimes soil and rock is cheaper to buy in bulk from a local landscape business than from Home Depot or Lowe’s. Shop around and do your calculations to save you from making multiple trips.

Save Money on Soil

One way to save money is to “lasagna garden.” Fill your beds with wet cardboard (no glossy cardboard or tape), a branches and sticks (no pinecones or anything with seeds), top with some leaves (try to avoid trees spray with pesticides), spray with water, and repeat once more before adding your soil. These items will break down and give you rich soil underneath. I know this to be true because after uprooting one of our kid’s beds, the soil underneath was black and rich!

4. Invite others to help

This was such a fun family project to work on. While my kids may not say they had loads of fun—ha!, I really believe this kind of labor is beneficial for families as it gets you outside, requires working with hands, and gives a sense of accomplishment when it’s finished. Our kiddos were such a big help. Kaiden did a lot of heavy lifting and the girls helped with smaller tasks like securing the edging and helping me cut landscape fabric.

I also enlisted help by asking friends for bags of leaves and a farmer friend who gave me lots of compost to mix into our beds. You never know what others have or don’t need unless you ask!

Lastly, teaching others to garden is a great way to build relationships and implement Titus 2 discipleship. Ask younger women to help you on a project if you don’t have helping hands within the home.

5. Enjoy the fruit of your labor!

It’s all finished now and I couldn’t be happier!!!!!!!! We’ve spent time in this space every day since we finished sowing seeds, picking small weeds, checking on our plants, and watching things grow. On cool mornings, I hope to read my Bible out here or share coffee with friends and on cool nights, we plan to make s’mores and enjoy a nice fire.

We are thinking about adding some string lights and maybe even a white picket fence. I look forward to sharing pictures in a few months when, Lord willing, these beds will be filled with a variety of herbs, veggies, and flowers. Even if not, it will certainly be a space to do morning devotions, share coffee with others, and cultivating a love for gardening in my kids.

A Gardening Illustration: Potatoes and Sin

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The kids and I planted our potatoes a few months ago. “It’s so easy!” said a number of people to me. I decided to give it a try, setting aside some organic potatoes on the window sill for weeks until they had decent sprouts. I purchased two potato grow bags for about $8 and added a healthy blend of soil and compost to the bottom of the bag. Within days, we saw immediate results!

Week after week, we watched them grow. I tended to them daily, pulling off a dead leaf here or there, watering them as needed, rescuing them from torrential downpours, and bringing them into our sunroom. I sent a picture to a farmer at our church, and he said, “You can’t tell me anymore that you have a brown thumb.”

As the weeks passed by and I continued to see more growth, I thought to myself, “Wow. This is easy.” But life has been busy these last few weeks, and rather than checking on them daily, I’ve glanced at them every few days. From the outside, everything seemed fine, but today, when I went to check on them, I was shocked to see brown spots all over one of my plants and the beginning stages forming on another. What happened?

Fungal infections are common in potatoes, and if left unchecked, their spores spread rapidly, even in as little as 12 hours! I purchased some copper fungicide to see if I can remedy the situation, but there is always the chance that our hard work may have come to an end. I’ve experienced this in gardening before and have come to accept that this is a part of the learning process; however, I couldn’t help but think of the spiritual parallels these sad-looking potatoes brought to mind.

While Christians are no longer enslaved to sin, we still battle sin daily (Rom. 6:6). If left unchecked, a sinful thought leads to more lingering and meditating on those thoughts, which eventually leads to acting on those thoughts. James 1:15 says, “Then when lust has conceived, it gives birth to sin, and when sin is fully matured, it brings forth death.” If we don’t see our sin for what it is—rebellion against God—and we entertain that sin, it will try to gain mastery over us. Here’s the thing: sin doesn’t care if we’ve had several great days of victory. Like my potatoes, if left unchecked or neglected, sin will take root in our hearts and minds and have its intended effect upon us. We cannot get lazy, apathetic, or even prideful, thinking that a day can go by where we are not checking our hearts and fighting against the sin that easily entangles us. We need to live in the power of the Holy Spirit and by the truth of His Word at all times.

The frustrating part in our battle with sin is that it can pop up at anytime—before falling asleep, while talking on the phone, while driving, or even in church! We may not have struggled with a sin for years and then all of a sudden a thought pops into our mind and with that sinful thoughts comes sinful justifications convincing us that it is okay to given in. The sin might be gossip, glancing at someone who isn’t your spouse, spending more than you’ve budgeted, skipping your Bible reading for the day, or even bragging about your Bible reading for the day. Satan has set up traps everywhere and every person’s weakness will look different from day to day and moment to moment, but our solution remains the same. We have been given spiritual armor to combat the fiery darts that will come our way.

Ephesians 6:10-13 says:

Finally, be strong in the Lord and in the might of His strength. Put on the full armor of God, so that you will be able to stand firm against the schemes of the devil. For our struggle is not against flesh and blood, but against the rulers, against the authorities, against the world forces of this darkness, against the spiritual forces of wickedness in the heavenly places. Therefore, take up the full armor of God, so that you will be able to resist in the evil day, and having done everything, to stand firm.

The difference between us and my potatoes is that we are not without hope; God has equipped us with all we need to combat sin. “But thanks be to God, who gives us the victory through our Lord Jesus Christ!” (1 Corinthians 15:57.) Because of the person and work of Christ, we know that death has no hold on us. It is possible for us to “not let sin reign in your mortal body so that you obey its lusts” and that we don’t have to “go on presenting your members to sin as instruments of unrighteousness” but can be instruments of righteousness for God (Romans 6:13). And if we have fallen into sin, we must learn to be quick to repent, confessing to God and those we’ve sinned against, taking responsibility for the sins we’ve committed, setting up boundaries, seeking accountability, and moving on knowing that Jesus sustains us even in our shortcomings.

I hope our potatoes are fine, but even if not, they served an illustrative purpose I will not forget. May we die to ourselves daily and work at killing sin so that we can present ourselves as worthy instruments of righteousness for the glory of God.

Finding Comfort in Loss: Reflecting on Life and Death in Memory of My Grandma

All, Christian LivingDianne Jago

“I told you why she married me, didn’t I?”

my Grandpa asked while tinkering with a brass hinge in his garage. I couldn’t recall the reason and even if I did remember I would still want to hear it again.

He smiled and simply stated, “‘57 T-Bird.”

It’s been years since I last stepped into my grandparents home, and while my grandma’s passing was never the reason I wanted to return, I was comforted to see that their home, in many respects, was very much how I remembered it to be. The entrance is still filled with books representing different eras and the many skills my grandparents possess, like photography, music, math, mechanics, and computer science. Sitting atop the kitchen counter was the same, worn tupperware containing our family favorite: grandpa’s oatmeal cookies. And then there are all the practical ways my grandpa has retrofitted their house, reusing and recycling objects in ways that display their simplicity and his engineering mind. While revisiting their home flooded my mind with memories of her, both in my childhood and college years, packing away her possessions cemented the reality that she has passed from this life into the next.

We know that death is one of the few guarantees in life. Every one of us will come to recognize that our life is a vapor that is here today but vanishes tomorrow (James 4:14). What happens after death is dependent on whether or not we come to a saving knowledge of Christ or not. I’m so thankful that I can say that my grandmother trusted in Jesus Christ as her Lord and personal Savior. She faced a number of health issues the last few years but could say with Paul that "we do not lose heart, but though our outer man is decaying, yet our inner man is being renewed day by day” (2 Corinthians 4:16).

The older I get, the more I see the reality of death increase. Ecclesiastes reminds us that one generation comes and another one goes (1:4). Our family suffered the loss of my cousin not that long ago. Even that very week, as we gathered to remember my grandma, my mom also received the news that my uncle in the Philippines passed away. What can possibly anchor our soul amidst the tumultuous waves that come with death? I shared with a friend today that all I can do is look to my heavenly Father and trust in His word, character, and promises. Without my faith, I would be without hope and without peace. While there certainly needs to be a time to mourn, we don’t live as those without hope (1 Thess. 1:14).

One of Ethan and my favorite quotes is by missionary Henry Martyn (1781–1812), reminding us that we have but one purpose here on Earth: to glorify God and enjoy Him forever. He once said:

I have rightfully no other business each day but to do God's work as a servant, constantly regarding His pleasure. May I have grace to live above every human motive, simply with God and to God. If [God] has work for me to do, I cannot die.

Christians are God’s workmanship created in Christ Jesus to do good work (Ephesians 2:10). We don’t know how long the Lord will allow us to walk this earth, but like Mr. Martyn said, we will remain here as long as God has work for us to do. It doesn’t matter how young or old we are; God still has work for you and me to do. He’s revealed the good work we are to do: love Him wholeheartedly, read and meditate on His Word, be fervent in prayer, share the Gospel, make disciples, teach the coming generations, gather with the Church Body, use our spiritual gifts in a local church, and so much more! Rather than squandering our God-given time, we ought to leverage every ounce of breath, energy, and time God has given us to walk worthy of our calling. 

Do I miss my grandma? Yes. Are there ways I could’ve been a granddaughter? Most definitely. But I am hopeful that I will see her again someday soon. Until then, I’m reminded to continue running the race God has set before me. 

We sang this hymn at church today, and I think it’s fitting to close this entry with these words. They are a reminder of the simple message of the gospel. We bring nothing into this world and take nothing from us. All we have to cling to is the person and work of Jesus Christ alone.

Rock of Ages, cleft for me,
Let me hide myself in Thee;
Let the water and the blood,
From Thy riverside, which flowed,
Be of sin the double cure,
Save me from its guilt and power.

Not the labor of my hands
Can fulfill Thy law’s demands;
Could my zeal no respite know,
Could my tears forever flow,
All could never sin erase,
Thou must save, and save by grace.

Nothing in my hands I bring,
Simply to Thy cross I cling;
Naked, come to Thee for dress,
Helpless, look to Thee for grace:
Foul, I to the fountain fly,
Wash me, Savior, or I die.

While I draw this fleeting breath,
When mine eyes shall close in death,
When I soar to worlds unknown,
See Thee on Thy judgment throne,
Rock of Ages, cleft for me,
Let me hide myself in Thee. 



The Stewart Family, 2024